In this edition of Beyond the Puzzle Piece, I introduce you to Christopher Jones. Christopher is an 18 year old math enthusiast, with an interest in history and politics as well. Chris also has a unique experience and voice when it comes to Autism Spectrum Disorders. Following an initial diagnosis with Asperger Syndrome at the age of 4, Chris has received Special Education services since that time. He was part of the first wave of students with what is called “High Functioning Autism” to go through the educational system while receiving services specifically for his needs. Chris has received Physical and Occupational Therapy to help cope with sensory issues, as well as Speech and Language Therapy and Social Skills groups to assist in communication skills. He started in a self contained Autism Support Classroom with a dedicated Special Education Teacher, and was gradually included further into the general education classroom. Now 18, Chris is a High School Senior with very strong opinions about everything from music to politics, and certainly autism. Join my conversation with Christopher as he shares with TGNR the thoughts, experiences, informed views, and reflections of his life with autism.
TGNR Anne DeFranco: I am sitting here with Christopher Jones, Senior at Hempfield High School in Landisville, Pennsylvania. Christopher, can you tell us what you are planning to do after you graduate?
Christopher Jones: Move into college and try to pursue the maths.
TGNR AD: Do you know what kind of math you would like to pursue?
CJ: Not at all.
TGNR AD: What started your interest in math?
CJ: To be honest, it is just how my brain works.
TGNR AD: So you have a “math-minded” brain so to speak?
CJ: You could say that.
TGNR AD: Where do you plan on going to school?
CJ: I am planning on going to H.A.C.C. (Harrisburg Area Community College) and then transferring to Millersville (University).
TGNR AD: Are you going to get a graduate degree?
CJ: I am not sure.
TGNR AD: Let’s talk about school for a little bit. What do you think about school now?
CJ: School should basically be a place where you learn and a place that should prepare you for your career. Not as much as college or a technical school would, but the very basics of your career.
TGNR AD: Do you feel like schools are accomplishing that?
CJ: They could do it better.
TGNR AD: How do you think school could do it better?
CJ: Well, to be honest……In my honest opinion there are some things that school requires you to take that have no direct link to you career path.
TGNR AD: Can you give me an example?
CJ: Some schools may have you take an Art, most schools make you take Gym and basically most schools have some topics that just seem off topic.
TGNR AD: Do you think that those classes may be beneficial for some people?
CJ: It could be beneficial for some, and I don’t think they should phase all of those out, but they should just realize that not everyone needs them.
TGNR AD: So, tell me more about school in general. Do you think schools are well set up for people with Autism Spectrum Disorders?
CJ: To be honest, not really. They are probably better than the were in the 80’s, but they are still not the best.
TGNR AD: What do you think schools could do differently for people on the Spectrum?
CJ: Well, what’s possible for them to do is to stop trying to avoid giving people programs that they need. Some districts are not the most honest about giving autistic students what they need.
TGNR AD: Is that something that you have experienced personally? I know you have attended school in two different school districts.
TGNR AD: Do you feel like one gave you more than the other?
CJ: I feel like Hempfield has given me more than Bristol Township School District because at least they don’t try to avoid my IEP (Individualized Education Program).
TGNR AD: For those who don’t know, an IEP is an Individualized Education Program. Chris, can you explain what an IEP is?
CJ: An IEP is basically a legalized document that states what a school has to do to try to help someone with autism.
TGNR AD: Is it just for people with autism?
CJ: It can be for other things but I don’t have experience with other things. So I can’t tell you anything about other things.
TGNR AD: What do you think was avoided for you with your IEP’s?
CJ: I honestly think they tried anything they thought they could get away with.
TGNR AD: Do you think they were doing it on purpose, or do you think they were just ignorant of what they were supposed to do?
CJ: Probably both.
TGNR AD: So you have had a good experience and a bad experience. What do you think can be done? What do you think schools can do to make IEP’s and programs better for kids with autism?
CJ: I think they would probably need to do better evaluations and listen more to the Special Ed Teachers.
TGNR AD: So, you think the special Ed teachers do a good job, but it gets lost once it gets to the administration?
CJ: I haven’t really seen any Special Ed Teacher that hasn’t really done a good job. Unless they have been covering it up. But every problem I have encountered has to do with the higher-up’s.
TGNR AD: Can you tell me, what is different about your school day because of your IEP than most kids who are in your grade?
CJ: To be fair, there is not as much this school year. Because as you help a child with an IEP, if you do it properly there is a chance that they will need less and less services. So I am at the point where I need much less services than others.
TGNR AD: So, going back a few years, can you tell me some things that would be different than a typical high school student?
CJ: Well I had extended time (on tests and some projects) because it takes me a lot longer to process the information that is inside me head.
TGNR AD: What about your Homeroom? How is your homeroom different?
CJ: Well for one, there are much less students in it.
TGNR AD: Is your homeroom teacher your special ed teacher?
TGNR AD: Is it better for you to start off your day in a smaller group with a quieter setting?
CJ: I think it is easier.
TGNR AD: What are some of the things your special ed teacher does to help you out?
CJ: Well for one, she reminds me of things my teachers need me to do if I forget. She also makes sure that more long term projects are reminded to me.
TGNR AD: What about when you take tests? Do you go with her, or do you stay in your classroom?
CJ: When I need extended time, I go with her.
TGNR AD: Can you give me an example of a time when you might need your special ed teacher? Not something that happens every day, but something that happens sometimes that she might help you out with.
CJ: I can’t remember enough details for a specific situation. But sometimes I get overwhelmed with emotions and often time she helps un-overwhelm me.
TGNR AD: So if you are in a situation in class and you are overwhelmed, you can ask to go see her?
CJ: Well, usually at that point the teacher just calls her.
TGNR AD: So they know that is a strategy for you if you get overwhelmed?
TGNR AD: What is it like for you in the classroom?
CJ: Well, it depends on the subject. But most of the time I am fine.
TGNR AD: What if you are asked to do group assignments?
CJ: Group assignments are a little complicated. It basically really depends on the type of group assignment. Because if it is just solving problems and occasionally bouncing ideas off of each other that is fine. But when it becomes each person does something and you have to write something together, that is when problems start to come in.
TGNR AD: So you don’t generally like working with other people?
CJ: I try to avoid working with other people if I can.
TGNR AD: Let’s talk more about Autism in general. What differences to you notice between yourself and what some would call “neurotypical” people?
CJ: To be honest, I think it is about what a brain prioritizes and the pathways of the brain. You see, most people can socialize very well. While I can’t speak for all autistic people, socialization is not as natural for us. And when it is natural for us, it does not always seem to everyone like it is socialization.
TGNR AD: Can you give me an example?
CJ: I cannot really think of one off the top of my head. I just know that there are times when I think I am being social and I am told it is not correct socialization.
TGNR AD: Some people would say that is a disadvantage. But I want to know, what do you think is an advantage of having autism?
CJ: It seems to me that I can understand certain logic or algorithms better than most people. I also have a very different perspective in solving problems.
TGNR AD: Do you mean mathematical problems, or problems in general?
CJ: Any Problems. Because if you have many people who can all solve a problem , but they do it the same way, and you put those people together to build a rocket you will get an adequate rocket. But you add a person in who thinks completely differently, that person will have more impact then one of the people that thinks the same. If you remove that one person who thinks differently, it will change things a lot more then if you removed one of those people that thinks the same.
TGNR AD: That makes a lot of sense. So, what do you think is an advantage for you?
CJ: I am not sure exactly yet, but I know that sometime I can see things in equations that other people don’t notice. Things that just seem like common sense to me. But at the same time, there are things that most people see in those same equations that are just common sense to them that seem completely abstract to me.
TGNR AD: There is something else I wanted to talk to you about. There are several different groups that support autism in different ways. Some of them people with autism like and some of them people with autism have problems with. Can you tell me a group that you have issues with and one that you think does good things for the Autism Community?
TGNR AD: Can you tell me what your main issue with Autism Speaks?
CJ: To be fair, most of what Autism Speaks is trying to do is not help people with autism but mainly to cure autism. Which to me, doesn’t make sense. Autism is not like cancer. So how can you cure what is really a different way of brain functioning or thinking?
TGNR AD: I know you know other people who are on different parts of the Autism Spectrum very well, people you care about. Some who speak very little or are completely non-verbal. What do you think about when people use those examples as reasons to “cure” autism?
CJ: What you really want to do in these cases is get past the communication barrier. And communication does not have to be speech. Many of them have special devices that allow them to communicate through typing or symbols. Not everyone can do that I imagine, maybe that don’t have the access to it everywhere, but quite a few can. But lack of speech does not mean lack of intelligence. Or that they are broken and need to be fixed.
TGNR AD: Why do you like the Autism Self Advocacy Network?
CJ: It is run but mainly autistic people. Mainly it is autistic people standing up for autistic people. We can understand our problems and our needs. And I don’t mean to be offensive to parents, but some parents who have children with autism don’t understand. They think it is something like tuberculosis. Autism is not a disease. It is just a different thought process or way the brain works.
TGNR AD: I understand why a group like that would make an impact for people with autism. Do you have any people you admire who are on The Spectrum?
CJ: I am going to be honest. Most of the people I look up to who have autism we don’t know 100% for sure that they have autism. Mainly the great scientists like Einstein, Newton and Edison. People looking back think it is possible they had autism. I would even suggest that Tesla may have had autism. But we don’t know this for sure.
TGNR AD: Before we close, can you tell us one thing you want everyone to know about autism. Some people who are reading this may know a little bit about autism, some may know quite a bit. Some may just be finding out that they have a child with autism or have autism themselves. What is something that you think is important for people to know about autism from someone with autism?
CJ: Well, basically, people with autism often need help but it is mainly in the areas of coping with stressful situations, emotions and communication. There is a balance between helping people with autism cope and trying to destroy autism. In my mind if you destroy autism, you might as well murder someone’s personality.
TGNR AD: Well, thank you Chris, that gives up a lot to think about. Thank you for sharing your story with our readers.
CJ: You’re welcome.
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Beyond The Puzzle Piece: Autism’s Forgotten History
“Those who don’t know history are destined to repeat it.” – Edmund Burke
History’s undeniable value is why we continue to teach and study the great events of the past, both tragic and triumphant alike. Scholars compel humanity to analyze events within their historical context and evaluate the consequences of those events. This approach is particularly relevant when looking at the history of Autism and the Autism Spectrum.
Napoleon Bonaparte, a great student of history, mused that “History is a set of lies agreed upon,” a warning, in part, that urges the importance of objectivity when using history to help best understand the lessons learned from previous generations. If history is to be the great teacher, how does autism’s history factor into the current evolving understanding of autism today? As a parent, why is it so important to learn about the past when gathering the information necessary to best guide your child?
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Raising Boys Who Happen To Have Autism: A Mother’s Story
For TGNR’s 1/31/2016 installment of Sunday Brunch, TGNR introduces you to Anne DeFranco. This is the first edition of a monthly column that will discuss autism from the perspective of both a parent and as a Special Education professional. Anne is the proud mother of three children; her two eldest sons have been diagnosed with Autism. Both are now high school age.
Professionally, Anne has earned bachelor degrees in Special Education and Elementary Education. Additionally, she holds certifications for Secondary Education and English As A Second Language. Anne has worked as a special education teacher in both traditional and non-traditional classroom settings.
She has served as a school Supervisor for Special Education, as well as a District Representative for the Special Education Department, grades 7-12. Most recently, Anne worked as a Program Supervisor for a live-in facility, overseeing four adults with severe disabilities, all of which were non-verbal.
In her first installment, Anne tells her story about Autism, how it became a part of her life as a mother and ignited her passion to bring the best information and guidance to those in need.
When my oldest son was in preschool, it became clear that he was not like the other children in his class. My son had always presented as very active. He also had a few odd behaviors such as not making eye contact when talking to us or moving his hands in a strange way (that we latter learned was a “stim” or self stimulating behavior). My son played with his toys in an unusual manner, such as lining them up instead of engaging in pretend play.
He was also very rigid in keeping to a schedule and deviation spelled disaster. At the time we told ourselves, “what toddler does not have a few odd behaviors?” Young children can be challenging teachers, as anyone who has spent time with a toddler can attest!
Eventually, his behavior reached a point where they began to impact his ability to learn and his ability to appropriately make friends.
As the behavior of my son progressed, I began dreading taking him to school. His teacher would inevitably have the look on her face that would suggest she had been hoping and praying he would be sick that morning. Picking him up from school was also a nightmare! He would cry and refuse to leave the classroom, unable to handle the abrupt change in activities.
His teacher, the ever present centurion at the door was there to deliver the report of his behavior for the day. The other parents waiting in the hall gave me sideways glances, not daring to make eye contact. Each trying in their own way to pretend that my private Hell and I did not exist.
To them, my child was simply “that kid,” the one classmate which parents always heard a bizarre story about on the way home. I was beside myself and had no idea what was going on with him.
A Serendipitous and Fateful Encounter
After picking up my son one afternoon, the teacher’s aide approached me in the parking lot. She was a very kind woman and always tried to say something positive when she saw me.
“I just wanted to give you some information…”she started hesitantly. I think she was afraid I would not want to hear what she was going to suggest.
“Information about what?” I asked, probably just as hesitant. At this point all I had heard from people at school was how horrible my son’s behavior was.
“I have a daughter who is now in middle school. She had many issues when she was your son’s age and a lot of the same behaviors. But she is also very smart, which I believe your son is too. I know his teacher is overwhelmed with his behaviors, but when I work with him one on one, he is showing signs of being able to read and identify things I have rarely seen in preschool children. My daughter was recently diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome. It might be something you want to look into as well. Just a suggestion…”
I stood there in the parking lot quietly, trying to absorb this information. I thanked her and said good bye and got into the car to drive home. That evening I began to search for information on Asperger’s Syndrome.
Autism & The Search For Answers
My conversation with the aide took place in 2002. At that time Asperger’s had only been introduced into the Diagnostic and Statistical Manuel for Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1994. The diagnosis had been recognized abroad prior to that time, but it was a newly accepted diagnosis in the United States.
In 2002, information was harder to come by. Even our pediatrician was not able to provide me with accurate answers. Had I not persisted despite these obstacles, I may not have received answers as quickly.
If it had not been for the brave and caring intervention of this teacher’s aide, as one parent to another, our journey for answers may have been comparatively obtuse. Further, the diagnosis of my eldest son is what led to the earlier diagnosis of my second son.
To this day I believe that early intervention and the speech therapy he received helped him with his extraordinary acquisition of language and social skills.
The 2016 Dilemma: Making The Right Choices A Midst The Noise
This is a clear shift from 2002. Today, autism holds a cemented presence in the collective national outlook regarding public health. Whether it’s the ongoing debate over causes, purported cures, or portrayal in the media, autism regularly permeates the news.
As such, parents and caregivers seem to have the opposite problem in 2016 than I had in 2002. There is so much information that the challenge has shifted to identifying which information is accurate and, moreover, what portion is applicable for each unique diagnosis.
Convenience of data has made it easier for caregivers to explain autism to concerned family members and loved ones. However, misinformation can often cause these same family members to become armchair psychologists and physicians.
The Danger of Misinformation
When formulating the best choices for your child, this chorus of advice can be at the very least annoying and at the very worst dangerous. Erroneous information may lead to family members pushing inappropriate or untested therapies-such as a restrictive diet- without testing for medical need or additional monitoring for adequate nutrition.
Unsubstantiated treatment claims can also push parents away from well tested therapies. Approaches such as well balanced diets, speech, occupational therapy for sensory integration, or even social skills groups.
Accessibility of information about autism has without doubt increased awareness, but also allows unsubstantiated cures to be accessed just as easily. The good intentions of family members are not in question; the veracity of their data is.
Some family members may flat out deny the child displays any of the behaviors in question or even the existence of autism altogether. The growing acceptance of autism in popular culture has led to the creation of a caricature or allusion to autism in certain characters that downplays and degrades the reality and may make it seem as if autism is a farce or fad. This can at times lead family members to dismiss the gravity of what parents may be facing.
I had family members that fell into the latter category. They would express that I wanted something to be wrong with my children, therefore I imagined the symptoms and pushed a diagnosis.
Such behavior makes for frustrating family gatherings and strained family relationships when what a caregiver truly needs is a support system.
What I Give To You
In the time since my sons have been diagnosed, I have met and worked with many individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders. I have taught self-contained Autistic Support classrooms with young elementary aged children as well as in mainstream middle school and high school settings.
I have guided individuals in non-traditional settings. Activities such as day camps and nature center classes. I’ve worked with adults with autism. For all the counsel and instruction I gave, all the education I have accomplished, I have never stopped learning.
The most important lesson I have learned is this: the best information about autism, outside of the medical community and professional educators (with whom I strongly urge parents create a healthy partnership), comes from other people with autism and their caregivers.
Most communities now have excellent support groups for caregivers, individuals with autism at any age, and even siblings of individuals with autism.
I offer this column as a way of sharing these experiences and exploring other important topics. Serving to further the pursuit of a real understanding of autism. As one who has been a parent, and who has worked professionally in special education, I want this column to serve as an avenue to provide the best information available to people in all stages of managing autism as well as creating an open and respectful discourse for anyone that may be in need.
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The Lesson Only Time Could Teach
My sons are nearly adults now. Autism is a part of our every day life, but I have made sure that my boys know that their defining label is not autism. They are young men who happen to have autism. My oldest will be 18 this spring and will be attending college in the fall. He plans on studying math with the hope of getting a master’s degree and a job in the statistical analysis field.
My younger son is in the 10th grade. He would like to study psychology and music and use both to help others as his career. Little do they know that together they have taught me about the amazing intricacies of the human mind. Namely for we we know as autism. Or more importantly, how to be the best mother, teacher and human I can be.
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